I had an awesome week of live sessions with “sk” right before I left for Mexico. He enjoyed O/our time together so much that he booked online training sessions for when he got back home up north.
his first assignment was writing an essay on pain and here is the second part where he explains the feelings he gets while enduring cock tease both at My hands and carrying out the assignments.

“Mistress,
The concept of giving up control of your cock and balls to someone else through orgasm control and denial is one that should not be taken lightly by anyone. i believe that orgasm control through teasing and denial takes extremely will power and is a true sign of submission. A submissive has to realize that his pleasure is no longer his and that through teasing and orgasm control, he is pleasing his Mistress. However, the willpower needed to NOT disobey one’s Mistress while out of Her control is extreme. It does help if a slave, like me, is a true masochist and enjoys pain and constant reminders of servitude. i find that the longer i go without an orgasm, the more i am reminded of my submission at even the smallest things. i find myself while in public acting more submissive doing things like holding doors for Women, i find myself bowing my head at times occasionally in presence of Women and find myself doing more “small things” for those Women in my life. i certainly also find myself begging more and more to please in order to earn the privilege of release of Your cum from Your balls Mistress.
However, being under orgasm control while away from You Mistress is almost easier than being under orgasm control while with You Mistress. i certainly wish to experience more and more in person orgasm control with You Goddess. While i am away from You, any teasing done is easier as i know i can not cum. i know i can tease myself and be masochistic by teasing myself knowing i can not cum and i will have blue balls from the teasing but when with You, it is unknown if i will be able to cum. You provide me with teasing to get me thinking i may be allowed to orgasm but i don’t know if i will or not. It is a TOTAL head game and a game that You are in charge of
When You and i were together and You were teasing me my mind was racing. i was awe struck by the fact that it was happening and i was unable to move and You were in charge and teasing me. It had been 4 weeks since i had cum and i was finally out of my chastity device. i was tied tightly and i was watching Your beautiful hands and nails tease and torture Your pathetic cock. You got me to the point of begging for relief. First i begged for an orgasm. “Please Mistress, Please may i cum” were words that i said over and over again. After more teasing, i was willing for any relief of the ache in my balls and then i began to beg for any relief and said “please Mistress, Please i will even submit to a ruined orgasm, anything for relief Mistress please Mistress”. i didn’t know what to expect. You laughed at me and continued to tease me. You started stroking in earnest and i thought maybe, just maybe. i begged for permission and was just about there when……….You stopped. AWWW, damn. After a few seconds, You started again. This was done over and over. Then, after what seemed like forever and i was sweating from all of this, You allowed me the ruined orgasm that i was begging for. i will offer this advice to those that have not experienced a ruined orgasm at Your hands, please know, there is no pleasure at all from this. There is very little relief and absolutely no pleasure when granted permission for such an event. However, i sincerely appreciated any bit of relief that You granted Mistress. After cleaning up my mess, yes with my tongue, i was locked back up in my cage.
i crave orgasm control. i love the mental head game of being horny 24/7 at the hands of my Goddess. i love given control of my cock, balls and cum to my Mistress Tia and love knowing that they are no longer mine but Mistress Tia’s cock, balls, and cum.
Thank You Goddess for taking control and thank You for teaching me how to be the best submissive i can be.
humbly,
sk”

Some of you cockstroking subs already know that I will be celebrating a birthday in 3 weeks. So now is your chance to make Me smile by spoiling Me and pampering Me in the manner your Goddess deserves.
you may do so by purchasing items from My wishlist – everything on there is something I want! [especially the new bicycle - since Mine broke, I haven't been able to ride ]
I am also excited about some concerts playing on My birthday weekend here in Las Vegas:
Sade and John Legend 9/3 – get tickets
Def Leppard and Heart on My birthday! – get tickets
B-52s and Human League on My birthday! – get tickets
I am totally dying to see any/all of the Cirque shows here in Vegas.
And, of course, you can never go wrong with a generous spa day certificate! (ask Me for salon or spa name)

I’m leaving on Friday for a week of margaritas & relaxation in Mexico and won’t return until 8/28. So if you wanna stroke for the Queen of Cocktease, you’d better call soon!
Mistress Tia

Hello pets!I get asked all the time what My favorite types of calls are. You have often been told I can’t pick just one, because it depends on My mood, and on you, the give and take feedback I get from you. That is the one thing I enjoy that remains consistent- you know quiet callers make Me sad. I have selected My top ten favorite types of calls,and over the coming weeks will share with you why I enjoy them so much. Keep in mind, many of them over-lap, or lead into one another.
The first subject I want to talk about is cock control via chastity. I really enjoy being the Keyholder & femdom that controls your releases. I think that if you just randomly are masturbating, or are even a chronic masturbator, you need taken in hand by a strong humiliatrix and femdom Mistress who will teach you exactly when and why you will be allowed to pleasure yourself – it is the ultimate in cockteasing phonesex. If you haven’t figured it out yet, women are the stronger sex, and anything you do in your daily life revolves around a woman. So, even though you may think your orgasms are for your pleasure, if I want to schedule them for you or lock your cock in a cb6000, you will submit to that.
Some guys think a day or two is far to long to go without orgasm, while others have gone for a month or even more. I believe in pushing the envelope, pushing your limits of restraint, and sometimes eveninvoking mild chastity device punishment. Even without regular teasing, men get turned on so easily that denial can often frustrate them, but once they learn the benefits of chastity, they soon realize that not only does it entertain women, it actually helps a male become more focused, productive, and clear headed.
So, are you in the market for becoming clear headed and focused? Has your work or sleep suffered due to your chronic stroking? Then give your masturbation Mistress a call to see how you can be helped with some chastity.You can reach your Mistress Tia at 877-705-6413 if you are not too scared!

Well, pets, here is another entry on one of My favorite types of phone calls. This one focuses on My cuckold callers. Now, you may think you do not know if you are a cuckolded husband or boyfriend, but I believe if you look deep inside yourself, you will be able to figure it out. Here are some questions to ask yourself: “Am I always the friend, never the lover?” “Does She prefer oral when She is with me, saying it is more satisfying?” “Do I give Her gifts and pay for it when She goes out with Her friends?” “Have I ever really had an extended sexual relationship with a beautiful woman who just volunteered to sleep with me? (not a professional!)”
So, I am pretty sure you cuckys answered “Yes, yes, yes, and no.” to those questions. Am I right? Of course….
Because really, what do you have to offer a beautiful woman? That is generally the crux of the matter. You are not well endowed. You have a teeny weenie baby dick. You have experienced years and years of  small penis humiliation and that’s all you know anymore, it’s almost a safe haven for you. Once a woman finds out about your little pecker, She knows there will never be a sexual relationship with you, but there may be things you can exchange to have a mutually satisfying friendship. Things such as: I may allow you to be in My presence after you send My friends and I to a day spa for some pampering. I may allow you to sleep on the floor next to My bed if you send Me on a much deserved vacation. I may allow you to soothe Me with your warm, wet tongue if My sweet little….
well, I’ll just leave that alone for now- but give Me a call at 877-705-6413 for some erotic storytelling phone sex and I’ll tell you what it is I do with a real man before I come visit you. Then you will know what I use your soothing tongue for!
If you have any other questions regarding whether or not you are a cucky, well, I really enjoy helping you figure these things out. If you have gotten your little feelings hurt by a woman turning you down sexually, and you want to understand that better, I’m glad to help you with that. Like I said, I’m pretty sure you already know, but if you want some confirmation, here I am.

Hey there darling pets! I thought I’d get back to My list of favorite kinks, calls, and fetishes. I’ve already covered cuckolding, and chastit, and today I am moving on to one of My personal favorites (as most of you already know!) foot worship . This isn’t a kink everybody enjoys, as far as you callers, but I can’t imagine a Mistress who doesn’t enjoy you on your knees worshiping, caressing, and adoring her sexy feet, the curve of the ankle and those pretty and almost edible toes. I know I really enjoy a good, thorough massage, with a nice firm tongue and some reverent hands! It’s especially delightful if, while you are gently sucking at My toes, your pecker starts to grow. That just tickles Me, you know. One thing I really enjoy is giving you a foot job- you know stroking you with My pretty pedicured feet, letting the arches press against you to massage your cock. You like that, too, don’t you? You especially enjoy when I do allow you to leave those pearly white  drops on my sparkly polished toenails. Obviously I can’t allow that sticky mess to remain on My pretty little toes, and you will be made to remain on your knees to clean My skin and restore the shine to My toenails. You know how you are going to do that, don’t you pet? It’s almost like practicing your oral skills- well, actually it is practicing your oral skills! Taking those baby steps at giving you cock sucking lessons while you are already down on your knees in front of Me sounds like a fantastic way to start, doesn’t it? And after those pretty little toes are all cleaned up, you can work your way on up to My strap-on, sucking it until you get hard, again- because you will, won’t you?
But I am drifting of on a tangent…(can you guess what’s been on My mind lately!?!) Another part of your fetish for feet it the way in which you are so easily distracted when out in public. You see that beautiful woman crossing her legs, you see that shoe slowly leave her foot, until it is just dangling from her toes, exposing that sexily curved arch…hard to focus when that happens, isn’t it? Can you imagine -some women are actually aware of your interest, and do things like this on purpose. You see how it escalates once she knows she has caught your eye, right? And once she sees she has you hooked, she owns you from that point on- especially if it is someone you work with on a regular basis. A daily ritual- coffee, meetings, blue balls. You don’t care, though, do you, as long as you have those beautiful feet to look at, to hold in your imagination when you touch yourself.
Enjoy watching the pretty pedicured tootsies come out to enjoy the sunshine, pets. It’s Summer, your Mistress’ favorite time of year. Because now I have pulled out all the strappy sandals and platform flip flops and open toed heels! I’m sure it’s going to be difficult to focus on much of anything while you have all that activity going on in your pants…
I look forward to hearing all about the struggle you go through during the day, imagining those sexy feet pressed up against you. Give Me a call, and lets take it to the next level, darling, and really enjoy ourselves. You can reach Me at 877-705-6413 to talk about the long tease that has been going on all day, or really, anything foot related. Or fun related…I’m up for that too!

Hi there pets! I know I write a lot about dressing you up, helping you live in the real world as a sissy as much as possible, empowering you to follow your dreams of being a woman. What I haven’t really touched on as much is the fun things that we get to do once you are all feminized!
Yes, sometimes it is all about the pretty clothes, and make-up, and panties, but sometimes it is just about good old fashioned sex. And, of course, since you are a sissy, and I am a woman, it stands to reason that we are often talking about some strap-on sex. All the fun that you would find with a real man, but with My guidance and direction. (unless I invite one of My stud bulls over!!!)
So, still a virgin? I actually can be gentle…until you get used to it. Once you are moaning like the girlie girl that you are, I will certainly give you a taste of what a real woman feels like when a man is inside her.
Speaking of “a taste” I have to say that part of the fun is actually allowing you the experience of swallowing- who cares if it is your own jizz? You know you want to be a jizz junkie- just like My caller last week, who acted like he wanted Me to “force” him, although he barely needed any persuasion at all!
Like I said, it’s not all about playing dress up. Sometimes it’s about being a real sissy, complete with strap-on play and learning to be a cock sucker. When you are teetering on the edge, trying to understand what all those urges and desires mean, just give Me a call at 877-705-6314 and I will delight in forcing you to complete the male sissification experience. Don’t be sacred, darling- I’ll be right here urging you on, and helping you to begin living your dream.

Well My little pets…I’m back!

As most of you know, I took the last month off for the ultimate in Mistress fun…I went on a tour of the dirty South!  My tour began on June 17th in Atlanta with Mistress Calixta.  Can you bitches even imagine being completely controlled by two curvaceous and plushly built Mistresses like Ourselves?  Haha. There was definitely lots of leather, latex, discipline and, of course – My favorite – teasing! We even took turns facesitting and nearly “smothering” one lucky bastard. It was truly a weekend to remember!

After we wrecked the submissives in Hotlanta, I headed to Huntsville for some Double Trouble with Lady Sassa.  Now for a city stuck smack dab in the middle of the bible belt, Huntsville, Alabama has a surprisingly active BDSM scene and a shocking number of submissives and slaves in need of controlling!  Y’all don’t even realize how lucky you are to have such a talented Huntsville Dominatrix named Lady Sassa   We had a blast with the pets in Her area: bondage and restraint (She has an impressive supply of equipment), discipline, panty boys and cross dressing, orgasm denial, forced cum eating, strap on training and, Her favorite – sissy training and feminization.  We didn’t just stay around Huntsville though…We banged out some hot domination and forced feminization in Nashville as well – Lady Sassa only lives about an hour from there. And I have to tell you boys, Nashville is MORE than just country music, lol. It is now the place where you can get Lady Sassa’s special brand of southern domination!

Now I know you want to hear all the details about how the moaned and begged and pleaded for mercy and release… But surely you understand that if I’m going to take time to spell it all out while you jerk off to My adventures, you will be calling Me for some Cockteasing Phonesex right? So what are you waiting for? 877-705-6413

So, I had this phone sex caller Friday night, “andy”, who seemed to struggle with the acceptance of his place in the scheme of things. He inherently knew that women are the Superior gender, but he was initially aggravated by this concept-quite pissy with an attitude!
He actually called Me back after that first call so that he could listen to Me read this as I typed while he was beating off. It’s sort of entertaining to listen to his moans and whimpers as he is stroking while I write. Poor thing, though, can beat it all he wants, he’s not allowed a happy (for him) ending tonight anyway! Yes, pets, I am talking about orgasm denial by a Superior Stroke Mistress. He is learning, somewhat painfully, that what he does with his penis is entirely up to Me. I allow him some fun, but certainly will not allow it to go too far, as I feel like there is much more he needs to learn regarding what it takes to please a woman to the degree that she will tolerate and allow his orgasm.
When he first called, he was acting like a grumpy old man, complaining about the dating scene and how hard his social life is-his whole life-he was having a pity party! I explained to him that his difficulties lie in his resistance to the natural order of things, and once he just submitted, and accepted he was pathetic, life would be so much easier for him.
Do you have that internal battle, thinking perhaps you are a more important cog in the wheel of life than what you actually are? I’m certainly not a man-hater, I think men are absolutely delightful, but I also know without a doubt that you males are here completely for the entertainment of women. Whether we want to dress you up as pretty little sissys , or be your strap on Dominatrix, or even just have some sweet and nasty phone sex , it’s all about what women want, when we want it, and if you are going to have an orgasm, it is because we let you!
Do you have the misguided notion that somehow you are actually in control of your penis? Shame on you, silly boy! Give Me a call at 877-705-6413 and you, too, can be like “andy”, coming to an understanding of your place in My life.

I’ve been thinking about the different type of sissies I get to meet on sissy training phonesex calls. I’m not sure that there is any reference material with a definitive description of what the variations are. But I will give you My opinion of how I think it shakes out. I feel as if there are two main categories- the frilly, over the top, pink and sparkly girls, and the sissies who really want to avoid scrutiny in their everyday world. Within these two categories fall those who want to be with real men, and those who want to be with other girls- with or without strap on play . (would those be lesbian sissies? haha) So, four types? I enjoy the dress up gals, with crinolines and ankle socks and Maryjanes, but I think I relate more to the ladies who want to dress in regular every day things, like Me…silky fabrics, sexy stockings, slips & lingerie, high heels, often bright colors rather than dark, neutrals or pastels. I love the make-up, the fancy lotions and body washes, luxurious perfumes, smooth skin….Is that you, too? As much as I enjoy the sissies who want to be BFF’s, there is that naughty side of Me that loves to push the envelope, to see if I can open up your world, show you new things, and new ways to play when you aren’t ready for a face-to-face encounter with a real man. Do you feel like you need some strap-on sucking lessons? Or don’t you even have your very own toy yet? Should we go shopping? (one of My favorite things to do!) Of course, if you already have a toy, we can really have so much fun, practicing all the skills that will make you a wonderful cock sucker when the time comes, in addition to teaching you the pleasures of taking a man like a true sissy would- not just on your knees, but on your back, with your legs in the air, squealing like a girl!
Whatever type of sissification training you are looking for, I look forward to being on that journey with you, teaching you new things, honing your skills, and getting you ready to take that next step in making your fantasy a reality!
Give your Goddess a call at 800-705-6413 and let Me help you become the woman you want to be.

Last week I talked to a guy who was in chastity- he was wearing his CB 6000 and had left his key at his office for the whole weekend. We teased and played for quite a while, and I just knew he was going to be perfect for long term chastity. Those of you who have talked to Me know I am a BIG fan of tease and denial phone sex! Although most often, after a bit of torturous stroking I have been know to allow you to release. I do love it when someone is able to follow through with a commitment to abstain from orgasm though! “Luke” has agreed to hold off until August 17th, which will have him surpassing his longest term of denial – 5weeks. I certainly hope he manages, as I will be terribly disappointed if he weakens and fails Me. I expect you to say what you mean and mean what you say, and when you make that commitment, well, keep your word!
Have you ever thought about some long term teasing sensual domination? Are you ready to step into that space and trust someone to give you just enough pleasure to remind you of what you are missing out on? I love hearing you moan and beg Me to allow you to release, to go back on your word, your commitment of chastity. You know I won’t relent- I’ll just laugh at you, and tease you more as I listen to your complaints about blue balls. If you think you are up to the challenge, like “Luke” believed he was (although he is a bit frustrated currently!) give your favorite Stroke Mistress a call at 800-705-6413 and we will begin your journey into erotic denial.